FILL ME UP

On Monday of this week, I shared with you my 'Things I'm Afraid to Tell You" post. On Monday I also cried like 20 times reading all the comments and emails that poured in after that post. Not only were you all so supportive, but many of you related and shared your own fears, frustrations and weaknesses. Another thing I should just tell you know is that I hate crying. Especially in front of people. So I'm glad I read all those comments in the comfort of my own home that evening, and not in the coffee shop earlier that day.
What surprised me the most about that post, though, was not only the comments I received from strangers or other bloggers, but from people who know me. Friends who rarely read the blog (or so I thought) and even my own dad who wrote me an email that turned me into a puddle of mush.

And it made me realize something.

We put so much of ourselves out there every single day - Tweeting away our little updates, Instagramming little moments, and sometimes even posting a bit about ourselves on our blogs. And, because of that I felt like I was sharing so much of myself already, that I didn't really feel a need to share more. But what I was sharing was so surface level that it didn't really tell you much. Apparently. So I'm going to work on that. And I promise this blog won't turn into a 'Dear Diary' moment every week, but I will try and extend some of the deeper conversations I have with other bloggers and good friends onto the pages of coco+kelley. Because you should be a part of those conversations too.

Ok, so before this gets any longer, what I'm really just wanting to say here is THANK YOU. For your support, your comments, your tweets, your emails (some of which I have yet to answer - sorry!), and your friendship. My cup runneth over.

Wishing you all a very lovely little weekend!

xo cassandra
*image by eric guillemain, edited by coco+kelley via fgr

19 comments:

  1. Anonymous18.5.12

    really, your gorgeous and a little bit more 'you' in your blog will be just as delightful of you :)

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  2. I might add that I also read your post (three times!). On an especially bad day, when I was feeling frustrated and depressed, it lifted my spirits in the most incredible way. Thank you, Cassandra.

    Paulette

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  3. What we do in our arena's is not only for ourselves in expressing our passions and interests but for others, inspirationally. It is as a ripple. Follow your bliss. Create your ripple. Inspire the ebb. Go with the flow. ~best

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  4. Anonymous18.5.12

    Only goes to show when one speaks the truth it is instantly recognizable to people... and oddly enough makes life better!

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  5. I love that we'll be getting more of "you" on the blog! I have a feeling you are going to help a lot of girls out there by sharing your thoughts and truths!

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  6. Your blog is one of the first ones I started reading regularly (waaaay before I even had the idea to start my own) And I honestly think it's getting better and better - in fact, you and the other "Things I'm Afraid To Tell You" participants inspired me to get a little more personal on my blog as well :)

    Kate
    www.theforgetfulwife.com

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  7. what a great Dad!

    :)
    mikky
    www.todaloos.com

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  8. I read your post several times! It was so inspirational and I enjoyed learning more about you. I hope you have a lovely weekend!! xo

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  9. It's good to know how hard the honesty (i.e. the real nitty gritty this is what is going through my head outside of what I love to blog about) posts are for a lot of people. I have yet to do my "things I'm afraid to tell you" but I've got it brewing in my head - just need to get it all down. I'll be curious how many of my "real" life friends and family respond. Not many of them comment or read, but I'll be curious if my post will spark their interest. Hope you have a great weekend!

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  10. I'm THRILLED to hear that you will be talking more about yourself and your behind-the-scenes life. We love to hear it because it makes us feel like we know you and actually makes you all that much more inspiring and interesting to read. I know that it's these type of details and posts that keep ME coming back for more!

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  11. I'm off to check out your post now, how wonderful that you opened yourself up like that and got so much support!

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  12. Great, great post!!!!

    Http://www.thefashionhive.com

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  13. I'm so glad we get to see more of "you!" I think this is where the perfect balance between creativity and passion for beauty and actually making a real difference in people's hearts comes in. So excited to read more! And thank you, once again, for sharing not only your fears, but your reaction to the comments regarding your confessions.

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  14. Aww this post made me kinda teary-eyed! I'm so glad that you got such great feedback and I'm really looking forward to your future posts. Your "Things I'm Afraid To Tell You" was so honest and relatable, and giving us readers that kind of connection to you makes your blog that much more enjoyable. :)

    Hope you're having a good weekend!!

    Amberly
    ambsgoodlife.blogspot.com

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  15. I've been strung out of blog land for about a month until today due to computer problems that were finally fixed and I really couldn't of come back at a better time. I was linked back over here from design manifest.

    What a wonderful down to earth series that was much needed to open blogger/readers eyes. First I wanted to say I loved reading yours.

    Putting your self out there and opening up - not just for your readers, friends, and family is a very courageous thing; scary but still very awesome. Why is it so hard to speak out our faults...? when we all know that every single person is excactally in the same boat but with different baggage.

    Deep down we all know the people who are willing to sacrifice their fears, and become strong are truly the most beautiful. The things that really sparkle aren't always what we see.

    I really couldn't relate more about the materialistic part your wrote about. I blogged about it below (link). It's so important (well for me) to really check my self and be balanced in my posts..

    I've loved reading your blog for a couple years now, it was one of the ones I first began reading. Thank you for being a huge and wonderful source of inspiration!

    http://clementineandolive.blogspot.com/2012/02/being-thankful-for-what-you-have-in.html

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  16. Hi, Cassandra

    I think it's wonderful that you are opening up past the surface "I'm fine" we all get stuck in. Have you been watching the conversation with Amanda de Cadenet? This show is great and the conversations are very open and real which also made me realize how very little I am really comfortable sharing with my friends. Im not there yet but find it inspiring to see you embrace being open fearless of judgement. thank you:)
    Xo,Lilly

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  17. that WAS a great post, i meant to tell you. i'm a new reader (you got me with your home tour on Rue which was featured on danielle oakey's blog). i'm a seattle-ite, too, so i feel like you're a neighbor of sorts. anyway, yay for inserting reality into blogs! we've lost it and we need more of it!

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